Why Your Cat Won’t Sleep in Their Bed (And How to Fix It)

If you’ve ever picked out a beautiful, cozy cat bed—only to find your feline fast asleep in a cardboard box or nestled in your laundry basket—you’re not alone. Cats are mysterious little beings with very particular tastes, especially when it comes to their beauty sleep (which, let’s be honest, is more like a full-time job at 12–18 hours a day).

But don’t give up on that new bed just yet. Here’s why your cat might be avoiding it—and how to gently encourage them to fall in love with their designated napping zone.

1. It’s All About Location, Location, Location

Cats are like real estate agents: where they sleep is everything. If the bed is in a noisy hallway, next to a vent, or far from their favorite people, they might not feel safe or cozy enough to settle in.

Fix it: Try placing the bed in a warm, quiet spot where your cat already likes to nap. Near a sunny window or tucked in a corner with a view of the room can be ideal.

2. The Material Might Be a Turn-Off

Your cat may be snubbing the bed because of how it feels or smells. Synthetic fabrics can off-gas VOCs (volatile organic compounds), which aren’t just potentially harmful—they’re also offensive to a cat’s sensitive nose. Plus, synthetics tend to trap heat, which can make the bed uncomfortably warm—cue the adorable paw dangling out for relief.

Fix it: Choose beds made with organic, breathable materials like cotton, bamboo, or kapok. Not only are they non-toxic and comfy, but they also help regulate temperature and smell more "natural," which appeals to your feline's instincts.

3. Shape & Support Matter More Than You Think

Some cats love to sprawl like royalty, while others prefer curling into the tiniest loaf possible. A bed that doesn’t match your cat’s preferred sleep position might feel awkward or uninviting.

Fix it: Observe your cat’s natural sleeping style:

Curled up tightly? A donut-shaped or concave bed like our Nido Modern Cat Bed might be purr-fect.
Stretched out in full splendor? A plush, supportive surface like our Plush Cat Bed Pillow can give them the room they crave.
Older or achy cats? Go orthopedic. Our Orthopedic designs help relieve pressure on joints and support restful, pain-free sleep.

4. Too New, Too Soon

Let’s face it, cats can be suspicious of change (or anything that isn't tuna-flavored). A brand-new bed might need a little "breaking in" before it earns their trust.

Fix it: Add a blanket or item with your cat’s scent. You can even sprinkle a bit of catnip or place their favorite toy on the bed to entice them. Sometimes, your scent on the bed is all it takes to make it feel familiar.

5. They Just Want to Be Close to You

No matter how much they pretend not to care, most cats actually like being near their humans. If their bed feels too "off-limits" or disconnected from where the family hangs out, they may choose your lap (or keyboard) instead.

Fix it: Incorporate the bed into your living space. Place it on the couch, near your workspace, or at the foot of your bed. This way, your cat gets the best of both worlds: comfort and companionship.

6. Their Personality Plays a Big Role

Just like us, every cat has their own quirks and preferences—some are bold and outgoing, while others are shy and need a safe space to feel secure. Their sleeping habits often reflect their personalities.

Fix it: Match the bed to your cat’s temperament.

Got a shy or anxious kitty? Beds with high walls, like our Sereno Donut Cat Bed, can provide a sense of security and enclosure.
Is your cat a stealthy napper who loves to hide? Try our Sacco Sleeping Bag—it offers a cozy cave-like feel perfect for introverts.
Confident loungers might prefer open, low-profile beds that let them stretch, survey the room, and stay social.

The Bottom Line

Cats can be picky (and we love them for it). But by choosing the right location, materials, shape, and level of support—and keeping their unique preferences in mind—you can turn that ignored cat bed into their new favorite napping spot.

Explore our collection of cozy, organic, and cat-approved beds designed for every kind of sleeper.

Because if your cat is going to sleep 16 hours a day, they might as well do it in style and comfort.